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Deconstructing the Speculation - Part I

THEY exist. YOU KNOW. THEY all have access to the Backstage. YOU KNOW. THEY read your mind. YOU KNOW. THEY work all together like bees. YOU KNOW.

But the truth is that THEY DON'T TALK ABOUT YOU. THEY ONLY TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES !

The point is : IF THEY DON'T RECOGNIZE THEIR SPECULATION ON YOU, THEN YOU DON'T RECOGNIZE IT, EITHER.

Ask yourself : DID YOU SIGN ANY CONTRACT WITH THEM ? WHERE IS YOUR SIGNATURE ? AND THEIRS ?

Do THEY have the power to control your life ? ASK THEM ! THEY will laugh at you. THEY will DENY the existence of this power, won't THEY ? SO DO YOU !

THEY EXPLORE INTENDED SIMILARITIES BETWEEN YOU (OR YOUR LIFE) AND THEIR VERY LIVES, using their key words, and its intended second-meanings, and force you to identify yourself with THEM.

THEY CREATE AND MANIPULATE A SICK SELF-IMAGE FOR YOU. So now you EXPLORE THE DIFFERENCES between YOU and THEM, and DECONSTRUCT YOUR SELF-IMAGE.

The basic principle is that, if THEY create an INTENDED hurricane of speculations over your brain, you simply doesn't recognize it and so now YOU create in your mind YOUR hurricane against THEM, which must be built in the opposite direction, with an equivalent strenght and size, in order to neutralize THEIR puppeteering over YOU and therefore freeing your mind from THEIR control.

The purpose of this anti-hurricane you must create in your mind is seeing the illusion, rather than being illuded. In other words, you'll analyse the illusion piece by piece, classify it, categorize it, label it, reduce it and compartmentalize it into your definitions and your descriptions of reality. THEY label, categorize, reduce, classify and compartmentalize your reality all the time. THEY define and describe your reality for you. So now it's your time to do the same with THEIR ILLUSION in your mind. That's the idea.

Here are some initial examples of phrases or sentences you may hear or images you may see, and how to deconstruct them :

Example #1 :

Your boss says : "I've lost my keys".

Visualize in your brain : "Well, HE/SHE did. NOT YOU. He/She lost HIS/HER keys. NOT YOURS. That's HIS/HER PROBLEM. NOT YOURS."

Now check YOUR keys. Touch them. Are you still with them ? Fine.

Visualize : "YOU DIDN'T LOSE YOUR KEYS. HE/SHE DID."

Keep reinforcing it in your mind. EXPLORE THE DIFFERENCES with your inner phrases, as many times as you feel necessary.

But DON'T THINK about YOUR PROBLEMS. DON'T THINK about YOUR LIFE. YOU DID NOT LOSE YOUR KEYS. HE/SHE DID. SO HE/SHE MUST HAVE LIFE PROBLEMS. NOT YOU. THAT'S HIS/HER BUSINESS.

Example #2 :

You see a girl in the sidewalk with a dog passing by your side.

So ? SHE has a DOG. YOU DON'T (in case you also have a dog, it's just your dog, nothing else. Big deal).

More important : YOU'RE NOT A DOG. IT IS. NOT YOU. YOU'RE HUMAN.

Mentalize : "DO YOU BARK ? NO, YOU DON'T. DO YOU WALK OVER FOUR FEET ? NO, YOU DON'T. DO YOU HAVE A TAIL ? NO, YOU DON'T"

So you don't ! The animal does. Not you.

Mentalize : "SO YOU'RE NOT A DOG, ARE YOU ? NO, YOU'RE NOT. THAT ANIMAL IS, NOT YOU".

You may mentalize everything using the first person ("I'm not") or the second person ("You're not"). Realize that using the second person you're automatically talking to the voice of your beloved one that you hear inside your heart. That's him/her visualizing with you and for you.

The visualization is very important in this process. The LAY-OUT is something very personal that you must choose : it may be a white rectangular screen with letters in black, for instance, or perhaps no screen and floating letters in white or red, or yet any image your brain can handle easily and rapidly.

Returning to the example, to reinforce everything, mentalize : "BY THE WAY, IS THE GIRL YOUR OWNER ? OF COURSE NOT. WHERE DID SHE BUY YOU ? IN WHICH SHOP ? DO YOU HAVE THE ADDRESS ? DOES SHE HAS A RECEIPT ? NO, SHE DOESN'T. THE TAXES WERE INCLUDED ? DID SHE GIVE YOU A NAME ? NO, SHE DIDN'T. DOES SHE KNOW YOU ? NO, SHE DOESN'T. IF YOU TALK TO HER, WILL SHE BEHAVE AS IF SHE KNOWED YOU ? NO, SHE WON'T. SO SHE DOESN'T KNOW YOU, RIGHT ? RIGHT."

You see ? Are you getting the spirit of the deconstruction process ? Let's continue with a few more examples.

Example #3 :

A woman in the elevator says : "My car has broken. Flat tire.".

Well, this time it's not an animal THEY want you to identify with. It's an object. Never mind. Mentalize : "HER car has broken. NOT YOURS. That's HER CAR, HER LIFE, HER PROBLEM, HER MISFORTUNE. NOT YOURS.". Then you continue : "SHE's got a flat tire. NOT YOU. DID YOU GET A FLAT TIRE ? NO, YOU DIDN'T. DO YOU HAVE A CAR ? DO YOUR CAR HAS A FLAT TIRE ? NO, IT DOESN'T.".

To reinforce, you may add : "ARE YOU A TIRE ? NO, YOU'RE NOT. DO YOU ROLL ? No, you walk. The tire rolls. DOES THE TIRE HAVE TWO FEET ? No, it doesn't. It has no foot. You have two feet. ARE YOU MADE OF RUBBER ? No, you're not. The tire is.".

If you're not black, add : "ARE YOU BLACK ? NO, YOU'RE NOT. THE TIRE IS, NOT YOU". If you're black, mentalize : "Are you THAT BLACK ? NO, YOU'RE NOT. THE TIRE IS, NOT YOU".

And if you are that black, mentalize : "DO YOU HAVE A BRAND NAME ? Which one ? Firestone ? Goodyear ? Michelin ? NO, YOU DON'T HAVE A BRAND NAME. THE TIRE HAS, NOT YOU. HAVE YOU BEEN PRODUCED IN A FACTORY ? Which one ? Where it is located ? No, you have not. The tire has, not you."

Use your imagination. Always explore the differences.

Example #4 :

Two men. They talk to each other the very moment they pass by you : "She is sick. Backbone problem. She's going to see the physician".

You visualize : "SHE IS SICK. NOT YOU. THAT's HER PROBLEM, NOT YOURS. SHE has a problem in HER backbone. That's HER backbone, NOT YOURS. Do YOU have a problem in your backbone ? No, YOU DON'T. SHE HAS. SHE is going to the physician, NOT YOU. DO YOU HAVE AN APPOINTMENT WITH YOUR PHYSICIAN ? At which day and time ? Which address ? Name of the street ? Of course you don't have an appointment with your physician, YOU'RE NOT SICK. SHE IS."

If you are a man, you can add : "SHE IS A WOMAN. ARE YOU A WOMAN ? NO, YOU ARE NOT. YOU ARE A MAN. DO YOU HAVE A VAGINA (or PUSSY) ? NO, YOU DON'T. SHE HAS. SHE IS A WOMAN. SHE IS SICK. YOU ARE NOT. That's HER problem, HER life, HER misfortune. NOT YOURS."

And in case you really have a physical problem in your backbone, you say to yourself : "THEY DON'T TALK ABOUT YOU. DO THEY KNOW YOU ? NO, THEY DON'T. ARE THEY TALKING TO YOU ? No, they aren't, right ? Right. SO THEY DON'T TALK ABOUT YOU. THEY TALK ABOUT THEMSELVES. They talk about THEIR FRIEND. ARE YOU THEIR FRIEND ? No, YOU ARE NOT."

Because in this case you also have a physical problem in your backbone, I suggest you add to your mentalization the words : "BEHAVIOR FISHING" and "SUBJECT CLONING". And DON'T THINK ABOUT WHAT TO DO WITH YOUR BACKBONE PROBLEM. That's what THEY want you to do. Later on you'll see detailed info on the "fishing techniques" and the "cloning techniques".

Example #5 :

You're in a snack bar. The old lady next table answers her cell phone. Among other sentences in a lower tone, she says loudly : "Is she fat ?"

Well, this time you have an answer in the air. You're not seeing the person she is talking about and you're not hearing the person at the other side of the line. You don't even know IF THERE IS the other side of the line, but you must assume there is so as to do your exercise (she wouldn't admit there is not, so you do not admit it either).

Realize also that she gave emphasis to THAT particular sentence by increasing her voice tone, so as you could hear only that sentence. This method functions like a catalyzer for THEIR speculation over your brain.

You visualize : "SHE IS FAT. SHE IS NOT FAT. SHE IS FAT , SHE IS LEAN. IT DOESN'T MATTER, IT'S NOT YOU. SHE IS THIS OR THAT. SHE IS, NOT YOU. That's HER body, NOT yours. That's HER LIFE, HER problem, NOT yours. Did this old lady talk TO YOU ? No, she didn't. She talks to the other person on the phone.".

To reinforce, you may add : "Does she recognize to be talking ABOUT you ? No, she doesn't. Does she KNOW YOU ? No, she doesn't . Have you seen her before in your life ? No, you have not. SO SHE IS NOT TALKING ABOUT YOU, RIGHT ? RIGHT.".

And due to the fact that she have used a specific emphasis in her voice tone, to reinforce even more you may want to add the word "CATALYZER" to your visualization. And because the answer for that question ("Is she fat ?") was not given, you may add : "SELF-ANALYSIS FISHING".

Is it getting difficult ? Never mind. You must practice over and over again. You must chew every new variation, every new changing, every new example, every new concept. You must do it many times, until your brain assimilates it. That's like working out, you must repeat many times each weight.

You'll notice that, as soon as your brain get used to a specific variation or type of speculation (that you may name an archetype), you won't lose energy anymore when hearing that archetype again. In other words, THEY will have to use a new form of speculation every time your brain get used to the previous one. (you'll see afterwards that it is very useful to write down these archetypes in a list. This facilitates things for your brain and for your memory).

Example #6 :

At your gym, the guy near you says to the other : "It's the pregnancy. Perhaps will have to abort.". The other replies : "But why ? When is the baby going to be delivered ?". Then the conversation is abruptly interrupted and you don't hear the answer.

If you're a man, realize that they intentionally avoided the words : SHE, HER, WOMAN, GIRL, or any other word connected with the female universe. They have just mentioned 'BABY' and 'PREGNANCY'. This may have been done to cheat your brain, because you are a man and therefore cannot be pregnant. This potentialize the speculation over your brain. It's a way they use to convince your brain they are talking about you.

Then you mentalize : "ARE YOU PREGNANT ? NO, SHE IS. NOT YOU. SHE IS A WOMAN. SHE IS PREGNANT. YOU'RE A MAN. MEN DO NOT BECOME PREGNANT. ARE YOU THE CHARACTER 'JUNIOR' PLAYED BY ARNOLD SCHWARZENEGGER IN THE MOVIE 'JUNIOR' ? NO, YOU'RE NOT. DO YOU THINK ARNOLD CAN BECOME PREGNANT OUTSIDE HIS MOVIES ? NO, HE CAN'T. YOU CAN'T, EITHER. NO MAN CAN BECOME PREGNANT. DO YOU HAVE AN UTERUS ? HAVE YOU HEARD OF ANY MAN BECOMING PREGNANT ? NO, YOU HAVEN'T."

Then you reinforce : "DO THEY KNOW YOU ? NO, THEY DON'T. ARE THEY TALKING TO YOU ? NO, THEY AREN'T. IF YOU APPROACH THEM AND ASK THEM IF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT YOU, WON'T THEY LAUGH AT YOU ? YES, THEY WILL. SO THEY AREN'T TALKING ABOUT YOU, RIGHT ? RIGHT. THEY REALLY ARE NOT. THEY TALK ABOUT HER, WHO IS THEIR FRIEND, NOT YOURS. SHE IS GOING TO ABORT ? HER LIFE, HER PROBLEM, NOT YOURS. YOU'RE NOT GOING TO ABORT, SHE WILL. YOU'RE NOT PREGNANT, SHE IS."

To reinforce more :"LOVE IS NOT A PHYSICAL THING AND THEREFORE CANNOT DIE OR ABORT".

On the other side, if you're a woman, they will not hit your brain the same way, because you won't have to deconstruct the potentializing element.

But you must mentalize anyway part of the above phrases : "ARE YOU PHYSICALLY PREGNANT ? NO, YOU'RE NOT. SHE IS, NOT YOU. ARE YOU GOING TO ABORT ? NO, YOU'RE NOT. PERHAPS SHE WILL, NOT YOU. YOU CERTAINLY WILL NOT, YOU'RE NOT PREGNANT."

Now touch your belly. Mentalize : "do you hear a sound, do you feel a kick, anything ? No, you don't, BECAUSE YOU'RE NOT PREGNANT. SHE IS. Did you have a positive result in some kind of pregnancy test recently ? NO, YOU DIDN'T. SHE DID, NOT YOU. SO YOU'RE NOT PREGNANT, RIGHT ? RIGHT.".

Example #7 :

Let's say you live in New York City. You're heading to work inside your bus, when a japanese tourist (a man) outside the bus asks the driver : "Is this bus going to pass near the Statue of Liberty ?", and the bus driver replies : "No, it's to the other side. Wrong direction. You have to take the bridge".

Now visualize : "ARE YOU GOING TO THE STATUE OF LIBERTY ? NO, YOU'RE NOT. YOU'RE GOING TO YOUR WORKPLACE. HE IS GOING TO THE STATUE OF LIBERTY. NOT YOU. HE TOOK THE WRONG DIRECTION. NOT YOU. DO YOUR BUS PASSES NEAR YOUR WORKPLACE ? YES, IT DOES. SO YOU TOOK THE RIGHT BUS, RIGHT ? RIGHT. ARE YOU A TOURIST ? NO, YOU LIVE IN THIS CITY. HE IS A TOURIST, NOT YOU. ARE YOU LOST ? NO. HE IS LOST, NOT YOU. ARE YOU A JAPANESE ? NO, YOU'RE NOT. HE IS. YOU'RE AMERICAN [or whatever nationality you may have], NOT JAPANESE. DID YOU BORN IN JAPAN ? WHICH CITY ? NONE, RIGHT ? SO YOU DIDN'T BORN IN JAPAN. YOU WERE BORN IN ..... [wherever you were born]".

NOTE : If you are REALLY a Japanese, or physically looks like one, this won't be a problem. Just omit the last part. In this case, your brain doesn't interpret the image 'JAPANESE' the way THEY would like it to be.

Finally, you have to deconstruct the bridge stuff. First, you have to establish the physical differences between your way to your work, and the alleged way the japanese tourist would have to take from that point to the Statue of Liberty. Mentalize : "Is there a bridge in YOUR way to YOUR work ?" If THERE IS a bridge, then it's no big deal; visualize "YOUR BRIDGE IS JUST A PHYSICAL BRIDGE OVER WHICH YOU PASS ALL DAYS; So YOU take YOUR physical bridge to go to YOUR work". If there is NOT a bridge in YOUR way, then mentalize : "HE IS GOING TO TAKE THE BRIDGE, NOT YOU. YOU DON'T HAVE A BRIDGE IN YOUR WAY, HE HAS ONE. THAT'S HIS LIFE, HIS PROBLEM, HIS BRIDGE".

Now let's say hypothetically that from that point till the Statue of Liberty, THERE WAS NO POSSIBLE BRIDGE THROUGH WHICH HE COULD PASS. In other words, he would have to deviate many miles from the normal way to take the nearest possible bridge. It means that the bus driver was cheating. He knew there was no bridge. He knew that you know there is no bridge.

Again this is another mechanism THEY use to increase the strenght and influence of the speculation over your mind. By raping reality this way, THEY subliminally send a message to your brain : "We're talking about you, but you can't prove it. Ha Ha Ha.".

So now you have to deconstruct it. I suggest that first you mentalize : "HORSE IN THE STAGE WORLD". This will reduce his maneuver into a LABEL that you create to categorize THEM (you'll see more on your LABELS and CATEGORIES later on in this homepage). This also tells your brain how aware you are of their speculation.

Then, it's your time to cheat. Now you are going to give him a mental excuse for not knowing that there is no bridge in the japanese's way to the Statue. Mentalize : "THE GUY IS A NEWCOMER IN THIS LINE. POOR DRIVER, HE DOESN'T KNOW THE WAY.". If the driver is old, you may add : "HE MUST HAVE SCLEROSIS OR SOMETHING". You may add other hyphotesis. Just use your imagination and manipulate the exceptions : a) "HE MUST HAVE CHANGED THE WORDS"; b) "HE CONFUSED HIMSELF"; c) "HE REALLY DON'T KNOW WHERE THE STATUE IS, AS HE HAS NEVER GONE TO THAT PART OF THE CITY, AND HE WAS ASHAMED TO ADMIT IT, SO HE JUST INVENTED SOMETHING TO SATISFY THE TOURIST"; d) "HE HAS A PREJUDICE OR TRAUMA AGAINST JAPANESE PERSONS, SO HE REVENGED HIMSELF ON THE POOR TOURIST".

Once YOU get access to this page, THEY may try to LABEL this page for your mind in so many distorted and delirious ways that it's hard even to imagine. YOU KNOW IT.

From "Pornography in the Internet" to "The Che Guevara Manifesto", from "Set of Keys" to "Spinning exercise classroom", from "The Fall of the Berlin Wall" to "Fantastic Realism Literature", from "Indian Reservation" to "Message in a Bottle", and so on.

These labels are all FALSE. This is just one homepage, and nothing else. YOU KNOW. You may simply deconstruct all of them. YOU KNOW HOW.

THEY ARE ALL LIARS. All but your BELOVED ONE. YOU KNOW. THEY ARE ALL PRETENDING. Trust firmly in the voice(s) within your heart. This voice is telling you the truth, THEY are NOT.